Friday, 26 October 2012

Palace of Illusions - book review


I got the book amidst high expectations. After all, the timeless story told from the perspective of the woman whose curse caused the greatest of the battles ever fought – it surely had a potential of a good book. And the title aggravated my hunger to know one of the most strong-willed woman I’ve heard about. Draupadi – a girl born without a mother, married to five guys – the most prolific brothers of their times, and who put her at stake and lost her in their frenzy over a game of dice. Her curse, however, brought down the greatest of empires, and resulted in a bloody battle of Mahabharata, wiping off almost the entire race of Kuru.
So from the time I heard about this book in which the writer gives voice to Draupadi and presented her point of view, I took a mere 3 days to order, read, and then discard it off to some decrepit corner.
The book isn’t bad, to start with. I mean, if you like Chetan Bagat-ish writing, you’d like her way of story telling. Or, if you are totally ignorant of the original story of Mahabharat, you might like the plot and the twists and turns. But, if you are looking for another view point of the original story, it would be a complete let down.
First of all, Mahabharat is a story where there is no absolute good or bad. Everything is a shade of grey. But each shade has a purpose and a reason behind it. If Krishna instigated Duryodhana, it was for a reason. If Karna was wronged, it again had a deep and dark reason behind it. The fall of Bheem – another cause of intertwining fates. So the point is, this book is a very amateurish take of a very deep and dark political satire. The writer has just concentrated on the breadth of the story, and the depth goes missing.

But, the worst part of the book has to be the character portrayal. it is not just lagging in sufficient research, it is so bad that it leers towards being frivolous. Where Yudhishthir is shown as a drunkard who, when he is not busy betting his wife and brothers on the game of dice, is busy boasting about his self-proclaimed virtuousness. Arjun is a snobbish warrior, who can never forgive his brothers with whom he has to share his prized catch- his wife. Nakul and Sehdev are no more than mere caretakers of their elder brothers and Draupadi. And Draupadi herself? Well, she’s no better than any average woman-next-door who hates her mother in law, just because she is her MIL, and keeps playing mind games with her which are totally absurd, and totally unbecoming of a queen. She likes Arjun before marrying him, and remains a grumpy baby even with five husbands in her tow (I accompanied them to the forest not because I loved them, but because I wanted to keep reminding them of how they wronged me). In her heart, she keeps harboring unsolicited love for Karna till the end, which is ok, till the depiction becomes so cheap that you wonder whether you are reading a road-side “a schoolgirl’s wild fantasies” novel.

Its not so much of the story and the liberty taken with the original story, but the way it is depicted that leaves a very bad after-taste. But then, I might just be one from the generation which grew up watching this story religiously, and conjuring up larger than life images of the characters, and may be I had kept very high hopes for a book which is just a figment of a writer’s imagination, who might have just heard the bits and pieces of the original story from various sources. Some amount of research and some more seriousness in dealing with this saga would have gone a long way.

Tuesday, 23 October 2012

How a shopaholic mom indulges herself


Motherhood could snatch away a lot of things close to my heart- peaceful, undisturbed sleep, freedom to pack my bags and hitting the road to anywhere and anyhow I wished, to name a few. Shopping, though, be it grocery/veggie shopping or for books and gadgets -  is a different story. Living in that part of Pune which is dominated by gunda-raj at the grassroot level, I found out my own means to indulge myself without giving in to the extortion by the local merchants. Here is my list of a few daily hacks. The list is mainly for Pune, but if you are in some other part of the world, chances are there might be a similar service there as well (if not, it might be a brilliant idea for a new venture!)

è eSabjiwala.com : Online veggie/fruit shopping. Cash in Delivery, flexibility of delivery time, and rates are comparable to the mandi (far lesser than the sabjiwalas in my area). 

è Autowale.com (8446001234) : Auto on call service. They charge (meter reading)+Rs. 15 extra. Saves me a lot of money and haggling time, if the autos don’t comply with meter. They’ll pick you up from anywhere in Pune, but you just have to call them an hour in advance.

è Flipkart.com : Online store for a lot of things, I use it for books and gadgets. Their service amazes me everytime. And, they almost always have a discount of minimum 30% on books. Also, whenever I need to buy any electronis item, I first check out the ratings, specs and cost here, even if I have to buy it from a local market. Oh yes, and they have free shipping for orders above 300!

è Babyoye.com / firstcry.com : baby and new-mom shopping, esp. in those few months when I was on house-arrest immediately after the delivery. And I visit this store not just for discounts they offer, but also to check out what’s new in the market. They also have international brands listed in a few categories.

è Zomato.com : The best foodie-site. I go there for restaurant reviews, location, menu, and also when I want to order-in. out of all the food-related websites, I found this one most up-to-date, and the reviews most honest.
 
è Snapdeal.com / timesdeal.com :  As they say in their ads, never pay full! There are huge discounts out there, from spa services to restaurant deals. Have a look at it before you head out for a dinner date, and you may end up saving for another one! There are some awesome deals like 50% off on branded outlets like CCD, Barista, Pizza hut, Marriott etc. But beware, all that glitters is not gold, so check out the reviews of a restaurant before buying a deal, if its your first visit.

Do I sound like a promoter of some e-commerce venture? Well, I also had a few glitches initially. Sites like futurebazaar.com (Please, someone blacklist it out for the worst services) made me more careful with online shopping. 

Monday, 13 February 2012

My first Valentines Day with him


What happens with two strangers who are destined to spend a life with each other, meeting on valentine’s day?

As it turned out- it was just our third meeting, so we were practically strangers, except for few formal talks over phone. So when I was told that he’ll be coming down to meet me by mid of Feb, the excitement was lost amidst the stress of planning for his trip. After all, there are so few options available as gift ideas for men, that too for a person  who
1.       I don’t know much about(in fact, nothing apart from the fact that he’s a sportsperson eventually stuck in IT job)
2.       Hasn’t worn the one shirt I got for him for engagement, ever!
3.       Is a guy, after all, so obviously he wont have any interest in mushy, lovey-dovey things
4.       Has never got me anything so far, not even a chocolate, so may be he’s not into gifts and other wasteful things, like my dad…
It’s not that I didn’t try. In fact, I gave my imagination its best shot, and ran over a few options like men’s accessories (he would’ve already stocked up on them for the engagement 2 months back) sports accessories (my god! They’re so expensive! Obviously he’s into serious sports, so I cant give him any gully-cricket stuff) eatables(well, don’t they say- the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach?, but, I don’t even know what he likes… and I have to cook for a lifetime for him anyway)…
I made an exhaustive trip to the market to atleast get some idea, and it was then that it struck me- oh the genius in me finally had the shot- I saw “it” in the shop, in all its glory, and I remembered Premchand’s character from a story, and felt like it was just the thing which could not go wrong at all… it was everything Pravin would have desired at the moment, cause he had even mentioned it to me a couple of times over our phone calls… and just over 200  bucks! Wow meenal!
So finally the evening came, and he came, in a surprisingly romantic avatar… a lake-side candle-lit dinner, with eyes doing all the talking, filled with dreams… (heck, I cant even write about mush.. damn..)
So it was gift time(well, its only me, after all… he wouldn’t have even thought about “gift” for this evening. He has no idea what I’ve been planning for him for last 15 days!) And he poof- he hands me out a cute little Ganesha(for good beginnings).. wow! The first gift from him! hey, wait, another poof! There’s something else in his hands – a red, heart shaped pillow with the pic of him a like most!(wow! He thought of that!)… and it doesn’t end there… one by one, like a magician, he hands me out a biiiiig romantic, musical greeting card(I had no idea even the clichéd gifts feel so good!) and a couple of books, and music cds, and chocolates… it went on and on…
Well, don’t look at me, after all that he got for me, you’re still waiting for me to tell you what did I get? Ok, here you go…
Whenever we used to talk over phone, he always complained of less battery in phone(no, I didn’t get him a new phone… no, not even a new battery) and whenever I would ask him to charge his phone, he’ll tell me about the plug point being too far from where he would be. So, I got him an extension cord- to charge his phone from wherever he talks…  ain’t I a genius!